《人生的规则》书评

（翻译）人生在世十条规则

原文：http://www.drcherie.com/ten-rules-being-human翻译：黛萝忒娜The Ten Rules For Being HumanDr. Chérie Carter-Scott's Rules of Life人生在世十条规则——谢莉·卡特-斯科特的人生规则The Ten Rules For Being Human人生在世十条规则Rule One - You will receive a body.You may love it or hate it, but it will be yours for the duration of your life on Earth.规则之一：你将拥有身体。你可能喜爱它或憎恨它，但只要你生活在世，它就会伴你终生。Rule Two - You will be presented with lessons.You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called "life". Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or hate them, but you have designed them as part of your curriculum.规则之二：你将接受功课。你加入的是一所名为『生活』的全天候日常学校。在这学校里的每一天你都有机会学习功课。你可能喜爱或憎恨它们，但它们早已是你总课程计划中的组分。Rule Three - There are no mistakes, only lessons.Growth is a process of experimentation, a series of trials, errors and occasional victories. The failed experiments are as much as a part of the process as the experiments that work.规则之三：无所谓错误，只有功课。成长是种试验的过程，一系列的尝试、失误与不经意间的成功。失败的试验与有效的试验一样，都是过程的一部分。Rule Four - The lesson is repeated until learned.Lessons will be repeated to you in various forms until you have learned them. When you have learned them, you can go on to the next lesson.规则之四：功课会不断重复，直到被掌握为止。功课会以各种形式在你的生活中不断重复，直到你已掌握它们。一旦你已掌握它们，就会进入下一阶段的功课中。Rule Five - Learning does not end.There is no part of life that does not contain lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.规则之五：学无止境。生活中处处有功课，绝无例外。只要你活着，就有要学习的功课。Rule Six - "There" is no better than "here".When your "there" has become "here" you will simply obtain another "there" that will look better to you than your present "here".规则之六：此处已是最好。如果你向往『别处』，那么当你的『别处』变成『此处』时，你只不过会又找到新的『别处』，以为那比你所在的『此处』更好。Rule Seven - Others are only mirrors of you.You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.规则之七：其他人不过是你的投射。你喜爱或憎恨其他人身上的某些地方，只不过是因为那反映出你在喜爱或憎恨自己身上的某些地方罢了。Rule Eight - What you make of your life is up to you.You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you.规则之八：你的生活如何完全取决于你自己。你已拥有所需的全部工具与资源。如何运用它们则取决于你。Rule Nine - Your answers lie inside of you.All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.规则之九：你寻求的答案就在自身之内。你只需去观察、聆听，以及信任。Rule Ten - You will forget all this at birth.You can remember it if you want by unraveling the double helix of inner-knowing.规则之十：在出生时你将遗忘这些规则。不过如果愿意，你可以回忆起它们，只要你去解开内在知识那纠结缠绕的线索。

简单的内容包含常见的道理

《人生的规则》译者后记里边有句话说，如果这本书看完了觉得不怎么信服，完全不必奇怪，信不信服并无多大关系，因为读书并不是为了信服，而是为了切换视角、更新思路。更何况，也许未来你会有信服的那一天。这句话我很赞同，其次书里说的虽然都很简单，并且也都是常见的道理，但我还是信服作者的观点。我们应该善待自己的身体，凡事可改变自己的心态，改变自己的生活状态。善待他人，接受生活所给予你的一切，改变不了便学会适应。懂得知足，感恩所拥有的一切。读懂自己内心真正的想法，接受现实并创造新的现实。